How to Tell if Your Facebook Messages Have Been Read

Is there a way to make sure anyone who sends me a message doesn’t know whether I’ve read their message or not?  I was wondering if we can choose whether or not the message senders know if we have or haven’t.  Also, if I send a message to someone who is NOT my fb friend, will my message show up in the same place as the ones from his fb friends?  Didn’t know whether or not there’s more than one file or whatever they’re called.  Thank you!!!

My husband was out shopping and sent me a photo on messenger. I was already on messenger at the time. As the photo came through, another woman’s name popped up to the side of the screen. Grey little bar. Then it disappeared immediately. Naturally I checked his Facebook friends and she is on there. He denies sending the photo to both of us. Did he send it to both of us? Did she send it to him then he sent it to me? Or was she checking out my profile while my husband and I were chatting? He has android and I have iPhone

The Messenger app on my new iPhone does not give me read receipts when I look at my list of Chats. It is only if I open a message that I can then see the read receipts in that message. When I open Messenger on my desktop there is a read receipt for each of my messages in my list of Chats. Is there any way to add read receipts to my list of Chats on my iPhone?

Whats the point in this? facebook, instagram and whatsapp all have the option to hide when you are online and the option to hide if you read something.
If you dislike someone enough you want to make active efforts to hide for them, you can always simply block or ignore them, why has it become normal for technology to encourage people to be two-faced and fickle

Is there any issue to be resolved with our accounts? To our knowledge there shouldn’t be a reason for any wait to allow us on Facebook. They say there is a problem to resolve and we would like to know what it is. Thank you. Donna F Barrah, email for me is [redacted]

I’ve seen this happen when the person I’m messaging has me open on messenger. If you had been messaging that person before you slept and put your phone down without closing the conversation, when when that person writes, it will show read immediately.

Is it possible to read a messenger message and it only say delivered

LOL

Is the party that sent a message ever in any way notified that you read the message when you read it? I hadn’t clicked on a message in months and when I finally did, the person then immediately reacted to my newly posted photo. They never react or comment on anything I post. I thought coincidence but my husband is so skeptical and thought there had to be a way that they were actually notified the minute I viewed the messages.

Good afternoon,

I’d like to know whether or not you’ll see an opened message after you’ve seen a message delivered icon when messaging a person who you’re not friends with on Facebook?

Thank you!